What is that one thing that you were created to do? The one thing that you are passionate about? The one thing that only you are equipped to do? The one thing that you believe that the creator of the universe designed you for?
Take some time to think about it. Write it out. Say it out loud when you get up in the morning. Say it out loud before you go to bed. Allow yourself to dream and envision what fulfilling that call would look like. Note that God has a sense of humor and it will probably look slightly different than what you imagined.
Now look at your calendar. Take a close look at where your time is being spent. Are you spending the precious commodity of time on things that do not support your vision or calling? Do you have family time built in? Do you have a time to refresh and reenergize?
If not, there is no hope of change by your own will or choice. You will continue on the same path you are already on. Maybe, you are content with where you are going. That’s okay.
But if you are not okay with where you are at or where you are going. It is time to make some difficult decisions.